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I need urgent advice

by The Archive Librarian • Wednesday, September 29, 2010 • 7 comments
5 months ago my boyfriend who I have been with for 6 years (I am 27) had quite a serious psychological episode (a psychosis) and attempted to commit suicide. I found him nearly dead. He has never suffered from depression and had never previously considered suicide; it was a one-off situation …read more »
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Unresolved Anger

by The Archive Librarian • Wednesday, September 29, 2010 • 3 comments
Hi My issues have generally sorted out. I have a real horrible and cruel father. And I "sorted out" my relationship with him by simply cutting him out. I got married and shifted out of the country (Am from India). And I don't call him at all. Don't answer his mails. …read more »
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In laws HELP!!

by The Archive Librarian • Wednesday, September 29, 2010 • 5 comments
My husband and I have been married for about 6 months now and I do not get along with his family at all. They have treated me badly ever since we got engaged. My husband is a Marine so he is often gone a lot on deployments. He was gone for …read more »
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It's hard to know where to begin--we've dealt with so much crap from his family in our 1.5 years together. Basically I just need someone to tell me "yes, it really is that bad--you aren't crazy" and to tell me what more I can do to protect myself from in-law drama. …read more »
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My MIL gave my DH a cards last year at Father's Day. One from her saying Son Happy Fathers Day. Then she gave him a card...from our kids. They don't live with her. They were 2 weeks and 2 years at that time. Then she did the same thing at Christmas. …read more »
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Future MIL worries

by The Archive Librarian • Friday, August 06, 2010 • 0 comments
My future mother-in-law makes me so crazy. I am so upset by her actions that I have even postponed making any wedding plans. I know I should not let this affect my relationship with my fiance but I can't help it. In a nutshell she is extremely manipulative and dishonest. A …read more »
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I HAVE BEEN MARRY FOR 20 YEARS. MY HUSBAND STARTED USING DRUGS ABOUT 4 YEARS AGO I MOVE TO THE SAME TOWN AND HIS MOTHER. WE HAVE 1 SON TOGETHER. HE IS ALWAYS TRYING TO SAY BAD THINGS TO HIM. HIS MOTHER IS ALWAYS CALLING MY HUSBAND AT HOME WHILE I …read more »
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Since Day 1 of my marriage my mother in law has put a wedge between my husband and I. She thinks my husband is her husband and has referred to herself as his "better half". When my husband and I were dating she used to complain about him constantly about how …read more »
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I have read a lot of stories on this website, and honestly...I would take a passive aggressive mother in law any day over the one I have. I warn you now, this is going to be a long story. I need to share some background information with you, so you can …read more »
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Inevitable Aggravation

by The Archive Librarian • Tuesday, August 03, 2010 • 0 comments
My husband and I decided not to contact his family (please read my previous story titled Deployment Neglect) at all while he is away on deployment in Afghanistan. He recently got promoted, and I don't post that kind of stuff on Facebook... I talked to my husband earlier who said 'I …read more »